How to keep your man without struggling

 

I always wonder how a girl would want to do everything, I mean absolutely everything within her power to love a man and keep him yet the same girl would either be dropped at the end and a less seemingly caring girl wins the man. It still seems like a mystery. However, a simple solution is what is required- men do not see things the way we do.

Struggling to impress a man would sure end up depressing you as well as repulse him. Women always want to do it right, sound perfect, act prim and always want to understand. The more you do that the more you destroy your ego and the more he reclines.

Men would often always notice when a woman behaves desperate and it is a strong put off for them.

When there is a fight between you and your man, try to always have a control over your emotions. Take a deep breath and keep quiet for a beat. This would help you think your feelings through and how best to approach the matter without raising more issues.

While trying to convey your emotions do not try to sound understanding. Express your worries and concerns but also let him know that you have a life outside him.

If women could understand that even nature designed it in a way that they should be chased and not the other way round.

Women focus too much on making him happy, losing weight, pretending to like sports (or whatever else he likes), stuffing down our displeasure or discomfort, or being agreeable and going with the flow

You find yourself working to “prove” you are the woman he should love, and all your doing, managing and convincing are the very things that repel him and prevent him from connecting with you. All your efforts accidentally push love away.

One advice I always give is this, do not make your self tied to a man until he is committed to you.

When you keep an open mind and embrace open dates, it not only builds your ego, it would also help you be sure that the Mr available is actually the Mr right.

Simple rule- be confident in yourself, love yourself and give the much you can to attract a man but he has to work to stay in your life.