Friday, 18 January 2013

Parent's Dilemma: Are You Raising Tech-Addicted Kids?



Over the past year I've watched my daughters and their friends set up email accounts, Instagram accounts and various chat apps on their newly acquired smartphones and iPods. It's clear that they are truly clueless. Emails are always "reply all" and sent to practically everyone in their address books — not to mention the crazy chain emails they send. 

So, the first discussion I had to have with my daughters was about email protocol and etiquette — and to reassure them over and over again that someone they loved would not die if they didn't forward that email to 10 other people. It's actually not easy to convince a 10-year-old girl of this fact.

Unfortunately, email was the most benign of our social media issues. The real problem is apps — specifically Instagram. There's been a ton of press coverage about the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act and the new focus on apps. However, that focus is all about marketing and behavioral tracking, not the real hazards of tweens using these apps — the ones parents are much more concerned about — and the social and psychological effects of over-sharing or just plain public stupidity. Most parents I've spoken to don't even know that it's illegal for their kids to have an Instagram account if they're under 13.

 There's been so much attention paid to Facebook, but from what I'm seeing and hearing, it's all about Instagram for kids. 

Parents who would never let their child have a Facebook account are completely fine with Instagram, basically because it hasn't gotten the same amount of publicity. 

The same is true for the popular chat apps like Kik Messenger, which kids are signing up for in droves. Some know to keep their accounts private, but many don't. All you have to do is read the reviews in the app store to see the completely inappropriate, sexual and predator behaviors going on with Kik.

Why Your Mind Is the Most Powerful Thing in the Universe


 

Looks like Thomas the Tank Engine had the right idea all along. "I think I can" may be the best way to mentally achieve world domination. 

According to ASAP Science, each thought we have can actually change the structure and function of our brains. And, no, they don't mean metaphorically; they literally mean thinking that you can do something and being positive about it will alter your brain. 

Eventually the power of your thoughts could help you, for example, learn the piano or even increase muscle mass in your body. 

Cancel the gym membership now. 

And the next time you forget to write that midterm paper just let your professor know you've thought it all up in your noggin — it's pretty much the same. 

Granted, ASAP Science does remind us that while thinking is the first (and potentially the most important step), the psychical follow-through doesn't hurt. 

Bet your mind is blown, but just don't actually imagine that happening — could be dangerous. 

D’banj, Wizkid, Tiwa Savage to join Iyanya for two-city concert



Iyanya

It’s his first solo concert as a recording artiste.

Following the success of his hit singles ‘Kukere’, and ‘Ur waist’, the rising pop star is now set to release his second album come February.

The long anticipated LP titled ‘Iyanya Vs Desire‘ is due for release on February 24, 2012. And he’s doing it big, with a two-city concert holding at the International Conference Centre in Abuja, and the convention centre of Eko Hotels in Lagos.

NET gathered that the Abuja version will feature appearances from heavyweights D’banj, Wizkid, Flavour, Tiwa Savage, M.I, Vector, May D, KCEE, Emma Nyra and others. The show will be hosted by actress Matilda Duncan and Big Mo

Nine days later, the Lagos leg will go down with performances from Iyanya and his friends.

Iyanya says he derived the title of his album from his recent departure from the R&B genre which he’s was first known for (Desire) and the new Pop style he’s adapted into his music (Iyanya).

Iyanya released his debut album in 2009, a year after winning the first ever edition of the MTN Project Fame music talent show.

Don Jazzy and younger brother float oil and gas company




Don Jazzy and younger brother James Collins at POP Night Club in Lagos


It’s all about business in the Michael ‘Don Jazzy‘ Collins family home; the brothers have made millions from the entertainment world, now they are delving into even more profitable business ventures.
 
NET sources say the brothers have set up an Oil and gas service company called Mavin Energy. The company as described on the official website ‘is a 24 hours door-to-door diesel delivery service that supplies and retails Petroleum products, offers services in construction of diesel storage tanks and leasing of trucks’.

James acts as the company’s CEO while the music producer who recently took over Austin ‘Jay Jay’ Okocha’s CLUB 10 (now renamed POP), is working behind-the-scenes.

Annie Idibia chilling in Dubai, keeps mum on pregnancy rumours




In the past few days, another set of Annie Idibia pregnancy rumours have hit the tabloids. This is the second time in six months the actress has been rumoured to have ‘taken in’.

While a rep for 2face Idibia has denied the pregnancy again, Annie herself doesn’t seem to be bothered. Annie who’s gearing up for a fabulous February wedding, is cooling off in Dubai.

The actress and mother of one posted pictures of herself at the Jumeirah Beach Hotel. ‘Love d beach view from my suite! Beautiful!!Peaceeeeee’, she wrote on instagram.

Meanwhile, just like Peter Okoye has been doing in recent times, 2face has resumed ‘Daddy duty’ with his daughter, lil’ Isabella while mummy is shopping and having fun.

 
 

‘Yoruba actors have complex’ – Funsho Adeolu



Funso Adeolu


Funsho Adeolu is not one to be toyed with, especially concerning professionalism.
Nigerian Entertainment Today met with the 45-year-old actor at a movie location in Ikorodu, and he spoke candidly on why he has been absent from English movies, and why Yoruba movies and actors are not in the spotlight like their English counterparts.
Let us start with your assessment of the Nigerian movie industry.

There has been a lot of improvement. At the moment, we don’t have a control agency, [which] is why we see some very funny things on TV, but when I started acting, the kind of cameras we used and technical know how we had was nothing near what we have now. We use very high-tech cameras now, the latest cameras they use overseas. We are progressing.

Is the industry lucrative?

It is very lucrative, [and] that is why everybody is coming in. The fact that it is lucrative is the reason there are so many people in the industry, and that has resulted in the lack of control in the movie world. These people wouldn’t have come in if there was no money.

Apart from lack of control, what other challenges do you think Nigerian actors face today?

Personally, I don’t see challenges in my job as anything difficult. Instead, I try to always enjoy them. I see it as a work hazard, and such things are obtainable in every other profession. Personally, I like challenges, [they have] this way of letting me know that I am working and makes me learn more, work properly and be more prayerful.

You once worked in the corporate world as a journalist. How easy was it to convince your family of your decision to act?

My decision to dump advertising and journalism for acting was like an adventure. I came from a broken home but it did not affect me. My parents were in the teaching field and wanted me to be what they could not, but they did not force me. I actually wanted to be a lawyer, I wrote JAMB four times but did not make the cut-off for Ife, (Obafemi Awolowo University). I started acting when I was in school, as a hobby. After I finished, I decided to go for acting professionally. It wasn’t hard convincing my parents, because at that time, I was already staying alone. They tried to meddle at some point, though, because they felt I was not as big as they expected, but I asked that I be left alone. What I have always wanted to do is not to look for money, but to be satisfied. I wanted to be content, successful, and to enjoy myself, and acting for me at that time was enjoyment, but now it is strictly business.

Are you successful and contented now?

If I was not, you wouldn’t look for me. I have become a household name. There is nowhere in the world you will go to that somebody will not know me, [and] that’s the primary stage of what I want to achieve in this industry. I just want people to know me, and for good jobs too. My knowledge of advertising and brand management also has helped me carve a niche for myself and it has paid off. A lot of people respect me and can’t even explain why.

You started out with soap operas but have not done those lately. Why is that?

After starring in Palace, then Super Story and later Family Ties, it will be difficult for me just to do anything lesser. If good work comes, I’ll be there. When the era of soap operas started, there weren’t many on the TV, but now we have so many soaps on TV, appearing in all of them would only make me lose my worth.

Why have you been absent in English movies these days?

When I started out, I always had an eye for professionalism and respect for the profession. I have always had an eye for perfection in everything I do. I like to be in the midst of people that are professionals. Even at that time, when I was in English [movies], I never worked with anybody apart from Tunji Bamishigbin, Jimi Odumosu, Tade Ogidan, and the likes. During that period, I got offers from others but I always declined.

Why?

Because they were not professionals. Theirs (Igbo filmmakers) is usually a case of somebody who started as a production assistant and in a year, claims to be a director. I had a standard and used to refuse their offers, but when it got to a point, all the people I mentioned (Tunji Bamishigbin, Jimi Odumosu and Tade Ogidan) left movies for soaps, and as an actor by profession, I had to eat. Antar Laniyan was the one that advised me to try Yoruba movies.

What are the differences between Igbo filmmakers and their Yoruba counterparts?

There is no big money in Yoruba movies, but I have realized that they are after knowledge, even though they are not as [well] read as the English people. I saw it as a place I could learn. Usually, the process starts on apprenticeship level, and after five years of training, [a person] tries his hands on things.  There is also a type of oneness in the Yoruba movie sector. The Yoruba setting has a system that is informal, but well-coordinated and educational for me, [and ]that makes me more comfortable and at home, but when professionals from the Igbo sector call me, I go, especially when I see that it is my kind of job. Apart from that, I don’t do any English movie, because what they do now is that the marketer is the producer and the director, and they haven’t learned anything about production. I am a director too, and I always want to learn when I get on every set.

Isn’t it the same in the Yoruba sector?

In their case, (Igbo movie makers), often times, their marketer is [also the producer and director]. I’m not saying it is professional, but it can be done, and well, too. Mel Gibson is a director, producer, actor and that is what we are looking at, but that does not mean everyone should do that. The Yoruba genre is as guilty. They feel it is a normal process for an actor to grow to become a producer and director, but it is not so. There are producers, actors and directors, but in trying to manage money and be everything so that people can reckon with them, that’s why they are doing it now so it’s not a professional thing.

How true is it that Yoruba movies are produced in a few days, and what effect does that have on the sector?
That is not peculiar to Yoruba movies alone, but to answer your question, yes. That is the way we have been doing it, a lot of people (producers) lie about it, but that is how it is. It is left for actors to maintain a standard and try not to do everything. It used to be worse, there was a time movies were shot in four or five days, but right now it is improving, and people are getting things right. Some even go abroad to learn about the technicalities involved (in filmmaking). I must say here that it was not this bad at the beginning, but some nonentities came in and made a mess of the system. I remember those days when I use to act on TV, majorly on NTA.
Then, there was no rush about anything. The planning stage used to take more time than production itself, but when one finds oneself in this type of situation where it is your profession, if you run away from it, you will come back begging for it; one must stay and try to change it, which is what is am doing now.
Is it true that there is a disparity between Yoruba and English speaking actors and why is this so?
Maybe because of the standards these days for Yoruba actors, naturally, there is bound to be a small complex, and as it is over there, if you do not showcase yourself, nobody will see or think you can do anything. Some people who saw me on Family Ties were surprised, forgetting I was a major character in Wale Adenuga’s Super Story.  If a Yoruba actor doesn’t try to show him or herself in any English speaking movie or soap, nobody will know they can speak English, but we have more read people in the Yoruba movie industry more than English.
Why is there more international acceptance and spotlight on English movies compared to with Yoruba films?

The unfortunate thing is that in the Yoruba actors’ world, they are self-confined. We are satisfied with ourselves, but talking about travelling, Yoruba actors and producers travel more often than the English, but they do it for relaxation and enjoyment. A few producers are doing well though, Muyiwa Ademola, for example. Let me mention that not all Igbo movie producers are making their mark; only a few of them do movies with good quality, the likes of Amaka Igwe, Emem Isong, Jeta Amata, Desmond Elliot. They are in a clique and are doing professional things, which are different from the regular Igbo movies. It is the orientation they have in the Yoruba set up that is stopping them from moving and thinking like that. I am sure very soon they will understand why they need to showcase some stuff out there.

Are there English actors you admire?

I admire Olu Jacobs and his wife [Joke Silva], Bimbo Manuel, RMD, Genevieve, Ramsey Noah. The Yoruba [actors] Yomi Fash Lanso, Antar Laniyan, Funke Akindele, and Fathia Balogun. We have a lot of them, but if I mention too many people, I’ll step on toes.

Of all the movies you have ever acted in, which has been the most memorable?

Iyan Ogun Odun, and that is because of the role I played. I couldn’t have done it for money but for acting, I’ll do anything apart from getting naked and having sex on set.

What would have been your reaction, should that have happened to you in real life?

I’d run away. Far away from everybody, I wouldn’t even try to look at her because if I did, I would have forgiven her.

It has been eight years since you got married, how has the journey been so far?

In my home, there’s real love, and that is why I’m saying there’s no love; a lot of people don’t know what love is. These days, a lot of people don’t get married because of the love, they do it because they have to be married or because of the wealth involved or the person is pregnant and the marriage, forced.  Mine has been great because I got married to my friend, we dated for eight years and it has been awesome till date.

You have a background in music, are you planning to delve into music soon?

I am not following that path. I used to play the drums, sing and dance very well. I am a complete theatre person. For a lot of my colleagues trying to sing, I can’t refer to them as musicians because music is a very complex thing. They think it is all about beat, but that is just a part of what is needed. Even the  popular people aren’t musicians.

Finally, at age 44, when do you plan to quit acting?

An actor is an actor for life, I can’t stop acting. Oga Bello (Adebayo Salami) is 60 and he’s still very active as an actor, so by 70 I’ll still be an actor, but it may not be like this anymore, because I’ll want to relax, I’ll be into production. I’ll have an outfit making movies, not as a producer, but in partnership with some people. We will have a producer, writer and directors, and I would be the technical person.

Oba of Benin honours ‘Nigeria’s Got Talent’ winner Amarachi



Amarachi at the Oba’s Palace


Nigeria’s Got Talent Season One winner, Amarachi Uyanne, has received an Award for Excellence from the Oba of Benin, for her sterling performance in the just concluded reality TV talent hunt show.

Eight-year-old Amarachi was among ten outstanding persons honoured by His Royal Highness, Omo No’ba N’edo Uku Akpolokpolo Erediauwa, at the annual event that recognizes achievers within the Oba’s domain.

Other recipients of the Oba’s honours during the grand ceremony at the Royal Palace were the Vice Chancellor of the University of Benin (UNIBEN), Professor Osayuki Godwin Oshodin for Academic Excellence and Professor Osato Frank Giwa-Osagie of the College of Medicine, University of Lagos.

The monarch also honoured the duo of Sir David Osunde and Pa Joseph Alufa Igbinovia for the Idia Mask sculpture which was a master piece at FESTAC 1977.

Others include Justice Efe Ikponmwosa; Chief Oyuki Obaseki, former Chairman of Nigerian Premier League and the Ohe of Benin kingdom, for his contribution to sports development in the year; media icon, Soni Irabor, and the late Sam Loco Efe for his contribution to the entertainment industry.



Amarachi presented with her N10m cheque

Segun Arinze and family cover Mothehood In-Style




Segun Arinze and his family are all smiles and more on the cover of the December-January edition of Motherhood In Style.

The Nollywood actor basked in the Christmas spirit, dressed up for fun with his wife Julie and two sons.

Thursday, 17 January 2013

Pressure cooker recipes


 

A pressure cooker is the surest way to quick and healthy meals. When following the instruction manual, the pressure cooker is a safe bet. It is the best way to cheaper meals too as food cooks quickly under pressure thereby saving fuel. 


Here are a few tips that can be followed in successfully handling a pressure cooker: 

  • Always use a cooker with sufficient quantity of water.

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  • Ensure that the vent tube is free of blockage before closing the lid
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  • Place the weight only when steam comes out steadily through the vent tube
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  • Store the cooker with its lid open to prevent mustiness
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  • Check the valve seat for clogged food particles; clean after every use
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  • After every use, hang out the gasket on a peg till the next use. This helps it last longer.
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  • To release pressure quickly, place the cooker in the sink; run cold water over it to cool it and hence reduce the pressure.
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  • Top 10 new movies of 2013

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    The Hobbit: An Unexpected Journey

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    Lincoln

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    Silver Linings Playbook

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    Kim Kardashian Says Beyonce Feud 'Not Real'

    Reality starlet tells 'Sway in the Morning' that Beyonce is 'one of the sweetest people I have ever met.'

    Kim Kardashian 

     

    On any given day, Kim Kardashian faces any number of gossip headlines. And, she swears that most of what you read about her isn't true, especially any speculation that she and Beyoncé aren't besties.

    "It's so not true. One of the sweetest people I have ever met. She's so sweet," she told MTV News' Sway Calloway on his Shade 45 morning show, "Sway in the Morning." "I have no idea where these things come from. ... I think they like to make up these feuds. It's more interesting.


    "We've never even talked about it. It doesn't even come up in conversation, probably because they get so many ridiculous stories brought to them every day with things that are true and not true.

     And vice-versa," she added. "That stuff just doesn't even come up, even with my family it doesn't come up."

    Their friendship first made headlines in June after they were photographed together hanging out at a Watch the Throne tour stop, while their significant others (and real-life besties) Kanye West and Jay-Z took the stage.

    A week later, they were spotted together with their respective beaus at the BET Awards. But by September, it was rumored that their relationship had turned cold.

    Well, Kim wants you to know, "It's really all not real. I don't know where they come up with this stuff." In fact, earlier this month, Yeezy tweeted out a photo of the foursome simply captioned, "FAM."

    Still on rumor control, Kardashian, who just confirmed she's expecting a baby with Kanye this July, also cleared up some more gossip about her inner circle. "And then there's this whole crazy story out there like my mom is pimping out the baby and Kanye and her are beefing.

     They love each other so much," she said, noting that she hasn't talked about the business of baby Kimye with her momager, Kris Jenner. "It's so crazy that people make up these things."

    Kim Kardashian Will Block Cameras From 'Private' Birth

     Kim Kardashian


    New York — Kim Kardashian is a lot of things: a reality television star, a business mogul and fashion designer. But there's one thing she is not: a private person.

    Yet, it seems like the woman who gave fans a front-row seat into her lavish wedding, watched her breakdown over her crumbling marriage and battle it out with her sisters on numerous occasions, might be changing her mind on just how much she is willing to share with millions of reality-show followers.

    Kardashian is just three months pregnant with her first child with boyfriend Kanye West, and while Ryan Seacrest did admit that viewers will see Kim's pregnancy on the upcoming season of "Keeping Up with the Kardashians," when the baby is due in July, cameras will be off.

    "I'm going to keep that private," Kardashian told MTV News of whether she will be filming the birth of her child.

    This may come as a surprise to some who are used to seeing monumental moments in the Kardashians' lives. Kourtney Kardashian famously televised the births of both of her children, Mason and Penelope, and her two children will be featured regularly on the upcoming season of "Kourtney & Kim Take Miami."

    However, if you're expecting to see baby Kimye joining in on playtime with her cousins while cameras are rolling, think again, because Kim admits that she is "going to keep that private too."

    Now that Kim has decided to draw the curtain on some major moments coming up in her personal life, it also seems like she will be taking a step back from the spotlight as well.

    "I'm hoping to take some time off," Kim said. "And just focus on that and not really work as much for a little bit."


    'American Idol' Judges: Where Will Nicki Minaj, Mariah Carey Rank?


    In anticipation of tonight's 'Idol' — and a new trio behind the table — Bigger Than the Sound ranks the judges from worst to best so far.

     Mariah Carey and Nicki Minaj



    "American Idol" returns for its 12th season on Wednesday night, having once again undergone a rather dramatic facelift by adding a trio of new judges to the fold: Mariah Carey, Nicki Minaj and Keith Urban.

    Of course, as you are probably aware by now, two of those judges want to kill each other, which means that this new season might just go down as the greatest in "Idol" history (or at least the most violent).
     And while Mariah and Nicki are already the two baddest bitches to ever grace the show's stage — Urban should be getting combat pay for having to sit between them — we'll be tuning in to see how they'll fare as actual judges. 
    What can we say? We're purists.

    Wednesday, 16 January 2013

    Celebrate your curves


    Women are created in different shapes and sizes, and no matter what size you are, be it size 8 or size 22, make sure you celebrate your body.



    Curves for days: Queen Latifah(L) Jill Scott (R)


    Some of us have natural curves, and many times, I see my fellow curvy sisters dressing inappropriately for their size. Here are a few tips that every curvy/plus size woman must bear in mind.

    Wear clothes that are your true size- Clothes that are too big can actually make you look larger and sloppy. Clothes that are too small will make you look uncomfortable, and trust me, no one wants to see your undergarments. Don’t force yourself into certain types of clothing.

    Trend thoughtfully- Every trend is not made for everybody. Make sure the clothes you choose compliment your curves and accentuate the positives.

    Don’t underestimate your undergarments!-Undergarments are so important for women with curves. Do not skimp on them. Invest in a high-quality, supportive bra that will do your girls justice. Also, a smoother bra will make any outfit look better.  The Online Lingerie store, Stylerebirth.com has a wide array of bras from A-K cup.

    Accessories make the outfit- Accessorize, accessorize, accessorize! Accessories make an outfit, so make sure you splurge on them. Jewelry, scarves, purses and — my favorite — shoes! Shoes can make an outfit too. Choose a bold look and you’ll be sure to make a statement. Just don’t make the mistake of piling on too many at once.

    Wear the right makeup- Your face is the first thing a person notices; at least it will be if you wear the right makeup! After a certain age, makeup shouldn’t be optional. You don’t have to have a full face on daily, but please do put on powder, mascara and lip gloss.

    Using Colour to Create Focal Points What is a focal point? It’s the most obvious point on your body that your clothing and accessories draws your attention to. To figure out where your focal point is, stand in front of a full length mirror, close your eyes, then open them and see where your gaze is drawn to. You can use focal points to distract people from looking at parts of your body you’d rather others didn’t notice. You can do it easily with colour – we often do this unknowingly – we wear a pair of black pants and a coloured top, which draws attention to our top half. You can also do it with coloured scarves and jewellery, coloured shoes or any other sort of design detail.

    To draw attention to your face, wear darker neutral colours on your body, then choose a scarf or coloured jewellery to draw attention up. To distract from your stomach, keep your top and bottom in the same neutral colour, then wear coloured shoes and a scarf or necklace which picks up the colour in the shoe to draw attention to your face. Just make sure you put your focal points where you want others to look.

    Kunle Afolayan premieres Yoruba documentary on Africa Magic



    Kunle Afolayan

    Kunle Afolayan

    Nigerian film maker, Kunle Afolayan has partnered with AfricaMagic Yoruba to launch a new documentary programme.

    Isedale is a 26 episode documentary series focusing on different elements of  Yoruba culture.
    The series was shot in Oyo, Ado Ekiti, Idanre in Ondo State, Erin-Ile-Igbaja-Agbamu in Kwara State, Ila and Oke ila, Ife, Epe, Ogbomoso and Ibadan.

    NET gathered that the Golden Effects production boss was commissioned by DSTV to create the series.
    In a chat with NET, Afolayan did not disclose the cost of the project, but said it took 90 days of production.